Question 1

How much should I spend on an engagement ring in Australia?

Accepted Answer

Most Australians spend between $3,000 and $10,000 on an engagement ring, with the average around $5,500. However, there's no right amount to spend. Set a budget based on your financial situation, not outdated rules like 'three months' salary'. Focus on choosing a ring that reflects your partner's style and your commitment, not a price tag. Many beautiful, quality rings are available at every price point.

Question 2

What is the most popular engagement ring style in Australia?

Accepted Answer

The classic solitaire engagement ring remains the most popular style in Australia, featuring a single diamond on a simple band. This timeless design highlights the diamond's beauty and suits all personalities. Other popular styles include halo rings (diamond surrounded by smaller stones), vintage-inspired designs, three-stone rings, and modern minimal settings. The best style depends on your partner's personal taste and lifestyle.

Question 3

What is the best metal for an engagement ring?

Accepted Answer

The best metal depends on personal preference and lifestyle. Platinum is the most durable and hypoallergenic but also the most expensive. White gold (18k or 14k) offers a similar look at a lower cost but requires occasional rhodium re-plating. Yellow gold is experiencing a resurgence and offers warmth and classic beauty. Rose gold provides a romantic, unique appearance. For active lifestyles, platinum or palladium offer the best durability.

Question 4

How do I secretly find my partner's ring size?

Accepted Answer

Try these discreet methods: borrow a ring she wears on her ring finger and trace it or have it sized at a jeweller, ask her friends or family who might know, look at her existing rings and compare sizes, or propose with a temporary ring and size it together afterward. Many jewellers offer free resizing within the first few months. Australian ring sizes typically range from I to N for women, with L being average. When in doubt, size slightly larger as rings are easier to make smaller.

Question 5

What setting makes a diamond look bigger?

Accepted Answer

A halo setting makes a diamond appear larger by surrounding it with small diamonds, adding visual size. Thin bands also make the center stone look bigger by comparison. Bezel settings can make diamonds appear larger while providing protection. Elongated diamond shapes like oval, pear, or marquise naturally look larger per carat than round diamonds. Additionally, setting the diamond higher with taller prongs allows more light and creates presence.

Question 6

Should I propose before or after choosing the ring together?

Accepted Answer

Both approaches work beautifully. Traditional surprise proposals are romantic and show you know your partner's taste. However, many modern couples choose together to ensure she loves the ring she'll wear forever. A popular compromise is proposing with a placeholder ring or just the diamond, then designing the final setting together. Some propose first, then shop together during the return period. Discuss general preferences beforehand - she may have strong opinions or prefer to be surprised.

Question 7

What is the difference between engagement ring settings?

Accepted Answer

Ring settings determine how the diamond is secured to the band. Prong settings use metal claws to hold the stone, maximizing light and brilliance - 4-prong offers modern look while 6-prong provides more security. Bezel settings surround the diamond with metal for maximum protection, ideal for active lifestyles. Tension settings use pressure to hold the stone, creating a modern floating appearance. Pave settings feature small diamonds set into the band for extra sparkle. Channel settings protect side stones within the band's metal walls.

Question 8

How long does it take to make an engagement ring?

Accepted Answer

Timeline varies by ring complexity and customization. Ready-made rings can be resized in 1-2 weeks. Custom-designed rings typically take 4-8 weeks from design approval to completion, including design consultation, CAD rendering, approval, casting, stone setting, and finishing. Rush services may be available for 2-3 week delivery with additional fees. For the best experience and to avoid stress, start shopping at least 2-3 months before you plan to propose.

Question 9

Can I insure my engagement ring?

Accepted Answer

Yes, and you absolutely should insure your engagement ring. Specialized jewellery insurance costs approximately 1-2 dollars per 100 dollars of value annually and covers loss, theft, and damage. You can add it to your home contents insurance or get standalone jewellery insurance. You'll need a recent valuation certificate and detailed photos. Insure the ring immediately after purchase, before the proposal, to ensure it's covered from day one.

Question 10

What engagement ring style suits an active lifestyle?

Accepted Answer

For active lifestyles, choose low-profile settings that sit flush to the finger, reducing snag risk. Bezel settings offer maximum diamond protection by surrounding it with metal. Tension settings are also durable with smooth edges. Avoid high prong settings or delicate designs with many small stones. Select durable metals like platinum or 18k gold. Consider a smooth, rounded comfort-fit band. Some couples choose a simpler daily-wear ring and save elaborate designs for special occasions.

Question 11

What's the difference between white gold and platinum?

Accepted Answer

Platinum is naturally white, hypoallergenic, denser, and more durable than white gold, making it ideal for active wear and those with metal sensitivities. It's more expensive but requires less maintenance. White gold (usually 18k or 14k) is actually yellow gold mixed with white metals and coated with rhodium plating for a white appearance. It costs less but needs rhodium re-plating every 1-3 years to maintain its white color. Both are excellent choices depending on budget and maintenance preferences.

Question 12

Should I buy the engagement ring and wedding band together?

Accepted Answer

It's not necessary but can be beneficial. Buying together ensures the wedding band sits flush against the engagement ring without gaps. Many designs are created as matching sets. However, many couples choose the engagement ring first and select wedding bands closer to the wedding, allowing more time to consider preferences and budget. You can also have a wedding band custom-made to fit any engagement ring. Some jewellers offer discounts when purchasing sets together.

Your Complete Engagement Ring Guide

Where to Begin: Essential First Steps

1. Set Your Budget

2. Understand Her Style

Personal Style Clues:

Subtle Ways to Gather Information:

3. Learn Ring Terminology

Popular Engagement Ring Styles

Solitaire

Halo

Choosing the Right Metal

Platinum

White Gold

Warning Signs: When to Walk Away

🚩 Red Flags from Jewellers

Frequently Asked Questions

Ready to Find the Perfect Engagement Ring?

Caring for Your Engagement Ring

Daily Care Tips

Cleaning at Home

What to Avoid

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